Modern dating feels like shopping for a new phone. You swipe through options, compare features, and return anything that doesn't meet your specifications.
But people aren't products. Relationships aren't transactions. And love isn't something you can optimize for.
The Shopping Mentality
Dating apps have turned us into consumers of people. We're always looking for the next best thing, the better option, the upgrade.
We've forgotten that relationships require investment. They require patience. They require accepting someone's flaws, not just their highlights.
The Real Problem
It's not the apps. It's us. We've become so focused on finding the "perfect" person that we've forgotten how to be the right person.
We're so busy swiping that we're not working on ourselves. We're so busy looking for someone who has it all together that we're not getting our own lives together.
Maybe the solution isn't better apps. Maybe it's better people.
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